Assalamualaikum and Hello people! 
People always said that woman is too complicated to be understand. yeah, I admit that.
'Girls Are Complicated'
Its true guys. I won't argue that thingy. But actually it is damn easy to fulfill what your girlfriend wants in a relationship. Or should i say a SERIOUS relationship ? If that relation is just for playing around or just wanna test that person about love thingy, so what the heck they should care about this right?
Shall I start?
Its true guys. I won't argue that thingy. But actually it is damn easy to fulfill what your girlfriend wants in a relationship. Or should i say a SERIOUS relationship ? If that relation is just for playing around or just wanna test that person about love thingy, so what the heck they should care about this right?
Shall I start?
1. Okay, first. You should give her much love as much she gave it to you.
Simple right? It ain't too hard right? Its not that hard to show how much you love her. You love her and that's it! Just show it boy. Do not try to cover it up and being egoistic. And yes, some of men did not know how to show their love towards his beloved one. Just tell her once that you love her everyday and she will know it.
2. Second, show your appreciation to what she have done for you.
Oh yes, girls love appreciation. With that, she knows how important she was to you. How you feel her presence besides you. Its doesn't mean you should thank her everyday every minutes every second. 'Thank you darling for this' or 'I do not know what to say honey, but I thank you so much'. Oh a huge NO! Girls does not like it when you thank them so much. Just show your appreciation with buying something for her, talk to her softly, or anything just to see her smile. Its simple guys!
3. Try to understand her and accept her just the way she are.
I am very sure you know the 'Just The Way You Are' song by Bruno Mars. You guys should search that lyrics and try to be just like the man in the song. He accept everything about his beloved one and how much he appreciate her. Everyone have the imperfection side. So? Just accept her bad side. It is very okay if you want to change her to be a better person, but, do not FORCE her.
Oh yes, girls love appreciation. With that, she knows how important she was to you. How you feel her presence besides you. Its doesn't mean you should thank her everyday every minutes every second. 'Thank you darling for this' or 'I do not know what to say honey, but I thank you so much'. Oh a huge NO! Girls does not like it when you thank them so much. Just show your appreciation with buying something for her, talk to her softly, or anything just to see her smile. Its simple guys!
3. Try to understand her and accept her just the way she are.
I am very sure you know the 'Just The Way You Are' song by Bruno Mars. You guys should search that lyrics and try to be just like the man in the song. He accept everything about his beloved one and how much he appreciate her. Everyone have the imperfection side. So? Just accept her bad side. It is very okay if you want to change her to be a better person, but, do not FORCE her.
4. If you can not be with her at a particular time, just TELL her.
The fourth one is one of the biggest problem that couples always had. You guys should being straight forward if you cannot be with her, cannot talk with her or cannot contact her for some particular reason, oh can you just tell her that reason? Girls cannot predict what the things happen in your life if you do not tell her. And I should mention here, girls need CONFIRMATION. Even she can predict why you cannot contact her but she do not have assurance from you guys, the suspicious feelings will get over her. And will get you both into a fight.
5. Do not hide anything from her. And do not ignore her.
Haaaa, if you both loves each other, why should keep a secret then? If you had a life problem or anything, share with her. Tell her! That will show the importance of her presence at your side. Just try to release what is in your mind to her and I am sure she will calm you down. She will try her best and do anything for you to make you smile again. Do not worry, every girls have a mother's heart.
6. Do not treat her as a lover all the time.
I am not sure about this thing. However, to me, girls love to be treatened as a child at some times, as a lover at another times, and as a friend also. I think this is the principe, she will be a child if she wants to be pampered, she will be a lover when you both in a romantic mode and wants to feel the love together, she will be a mother if you wants to be pampered, and she will be your friend if you want to share your problem or anything.
The fourth one is one of the biggest problem that couples always had. You guys should being straight forward if you cannot be with her, cannot talk with her or cannot contact her for some particular reason, oh can you just tell her that reason? Girls cannot predict what the things happen in your life if you do not tell her. And I should mention here, girls need CONFIRMATION. Even she can predict why you cannot contact her but she do not have assurance from you guys, the suspicious feelings will get over her. And will get you both into a fight.
5. Do not hide anything from her. And do not ignore her.
Haaaa, if you both loves each other, why should keep a secret then? If you had a life problem or anything, share with her. Tell her! That will show the importance of her presence at your side. Just try to release what is in your mind to her and I am sure she will calm you down. She will try her best and do anything for you to make you smile again. Do not worry, every girls have a mother's heart.
6. Do not treat her as a lover all the time.
I am not sure about this thing. However, to me, girls love to be treatened as a child at some times, as a lover at another times, and as a friend also. I think this is the principe, she will be a child if she wants to be pampered, she will be a lover when you both in a romantic mode and wants to feel the love together, she will be a mother if you wants to be pampered, and she will be your friend if you want to share your problem or anything.
7. Do not being tooooo sweet with your friends.
Some guys are very close to girl friends. Not girlfriends, but his female friends. Its not just because of jealousy thing. It is because of respect! Respect her feelings when you talked very softly with your friends. Oh whats the thing again? Talked softly right? That kind of guy is whatsocalled sweet talkers. Oh pleaseeeeee, why don't you just being sweet talker with you girlfriend right? Ni semua nak panggil 'dear' or 'sayang'. Some people said that thing is normal, but actually it is not NORMAL!
8. Do not use bad words or harsh words even when you angry.
It is okay if you scold her sometimes to make her realises her mistakes. It is your right as you were her boyfie. Sometimes you need to be more strict so that she will knows about her wrongdoings towards you or any. However, you should stay away from bad and harsh words. That is not the right way to release your anger towards her. Be more patient when you were handling the situation. Sometimes men can be so hot-tempered. So, no offense. But you love her right? So, stay away from bad words.
9. Do not compare her with others.
A big NO to this! Girls hate comparison. It will make her felt down and felt so imperfect from your eyes. Do not say that your friend are much good compared to her. Do not compare her bad side or even her good side with others. Even with famous person such as actress or something. Just let her to be HER to your eyes.
Some guys are very close to girl friends. Not girlfriends, but his female friends. Its not just because of jealousy thing. It is because of respect! Respect her feelings when you talked very softly with your friends. Oh whats the thing again? Talked softly right? That kind of guy is whatsocalled sweet talkers. Oh pleaseeeeee, why don't you just being sweet talker with you girlfriend right? Ni semua nak panggil 'dear' or 'sayang'. Some people said that thing is normal, but actually it is not NORMAL!
8. Do not use bad words or harsh words even when you angry.
It is okay if you scold her sometimes to make her realises her mistakes. It is your right as you were her boyfie. Sometimes you need to be more strict so that she will knows about her wrongdoings towards you or any. However, you should stay away from bad and harsh words. That is not the right way to release your anger towards her. Be more patient when you were handling the situation. Sometimes men can be so hot-tempered. So, no offense. But you love her right? So, stay away from bad words.
9. Do not compare her with others.
A big NO to this! Girls hate comparison. It will make her felt down and felt so imperfect from your eyes. Do not say that your friend are much good compared to her. Do not compare her bad side or even her good side with others. Even with famous person such as actress or something. Just let her to be HER to your eyes.
10. Oh I forgot! Try to contact her how busy you are.
You can just send a simple message to her, for example, ' Hello dear, I am sorry. Today I am busy,'. Sometimes girls can be too paranoid. Seriously. Just contact her for once even you are too busy.
You can just send a simple message to her, for example, ' Hello dear, I am sorry. Today I am busy,'. Sometimes girls can be too paranoid. Seriously. Just contact her for once even you are too busy.
11. Introduce her to your family and friends.
Do you know how its feel if you introduce your gf to your family and friends? It will make her feel special you know. Its like you tell your family and friends that 'this is the princess of my life'. Its not that hard. Its good for her to know your family and friends so that when something make you can't contact her, she can ask your family or friends about you.
12. Be loyal and trust her.
Just do not try to cheat on her and be loyal. Do not ever flirt around and push her aside. And surely you have to trust her in anything her do. Remember, trust, loyalty and understanding is the keys for a successful relationship.
There's many things that will assure your relationship long lasting forever. The main thing is you should try to be the best for her. You should be gentle and make it just you at her mind all the time. And with that, I ended this with ...
'May I marry your princess to make her as my queen?'
Oh this is so sweeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeet.
Bye! 
-wani-
